Maybe It's Best Some Don't Marry.
After reading Gregory Corso’s poem Marriage I was left wondering what this strange man had experienced in his life that made him have such an odd guesstimation about marriage compared to the norm. I enjoyed reading this poem, it opened up my mind by covering many strange ideas. For example, a passage that stood out to me.
“No, I doubt I’d be that kind of father
not rural not snow no quiet window
but hot smelly tight New York City
seven flights up, roaches and rats in the walls
a fat Reichian wife screeching over potatoes Get a job!
And five nose running brats in love with Batman
And the neighbors all toothless and dry haired
like those hag masses of the 18th century
All wanting o come in and watch TV
The landlord wants his rent
Grocery store Blue Cross Gas & Electric Knights of Columbus
Impossible to lie back and dream telephone snow, ghost parking--
No! I should not get married I should never get married!
But--imagine If I were married to a beautiful sophisticated woman
tall and pale wearing an elegant black dress and long black gloves
holding a cigarette holder in one hand and a highball in the other
And we lived high up in a penthouse with a huge window
from which we could see all of New York and ever farther on
Clearer days
No, can’t imagine myself married to that pleasant prison dream-- “-(Gregory Corso, Marriage, pg. 63-64)
I thought this passage was a good reputation of what he is venting about the whole poem which was his indecision on weather to be typical or different. He is vulgar with his language as he describes a dark unhappy vision of what he would be like as a father, yet then talks about what if he found a sophisticated woman and lived a rich life. Throughout the poem he sets the mood of a dark world by mentioning death and alcohol as a part of every day life.
If he is really asking us if he should marry or not my vote is for no, I believe he will be happy just living the rest of his days as a delusional lonely man. Throughout the poem he gives us no reason to trust him as a good father, rather he creeps us out and realized he is not capable of being loved. It made me wonder if his childhood was a bad experience and he didn’t have a father to raise him properly, so rather he grew up not understanding how to be a real man and how to act. If he was my neighbor in the future I would keep my family away from him at all times.